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Not all good communicators can lead, but all good leaders can communicate.

Of all the skills attributed to leaders—and by which leaders are identified—communication is universally agreed upon as the most important and the most indispensable.

How important? I taught a graduate course for 15 years—Executive Communication and Leadership in the MBA and MAS programs at Fairleigh Dickinson University—and always made reference to a recurring Wall Street Journal/Harris Interactive poll of top executives and corporate recruiters that showed that the most desirable and sought-after skill set was communication, followed closely by the ability to work well within a team. This was carried so far as to rating schools by their ability to produce candidates with well-developed communication and team skills. Farther down the list were things like analytical skills, problem solving, and organizational skills—what are called hard skills. But year after year, communication headed the list—the pinnacle of soft skills.

Yet, admittedly, claiming a pipeline of great communicators within organizations was not a sure thing. Executives, according to their own mea culpas, were saying that while they could find all the candidates with all the hard skills they needed (accounting, finance, engineering, logistics, etc.), what was keeping them up at night was the persistent problem of people not being able to communicate effectively. Nonetheless, one of the most common of all entries on résumés and most frequent answers to interview questions about strengths and weaknesses—from entry-level to C-suite respondents—is strong communication skills. Well, of course; when you’re writing your own résumé, that’s easy. Virtually everyone says it.

But ask them exactly what their leadership communication skills are. Ask for a list. Go so far as to tell them there are six (there are) and see what you get. Not once in all my years of teaching this graduate leadership communications course, and even more years of working with corporate leadership, did I ever get a response that identified all six. The fallacy of claiming communication skills but not being able to list them is befuddling. Yet it goes on.

The six leadership communication skills—and this is where everyone goes, “Oh, yeah, of course—are: (1) written, (2) verbal, (3) presentation, (4) nonverbal, (5) cross-cultural, and (6) listening. What’s the one least often mentioned when you challenge people to list them? Listening. No surprise there, right?

Which brings to mind the story of the worker who returned to his desk, trembling, after his annual review meeting with his boss.

“What’s the matter? What happened?” asked his co-worker.

“The boss said I have two serious problems, and I need to work on them if I want to keep my job,” he answered.

“What are they?” asked the coworker.

“He said that my first one is the most important, that I don’t pay attention or listen well enough,” he divulged.

“And the second?” continued the coworker.

“Uh, I don’t remember.”

Sadly, that story is probably rooted in truth, not fiction. More sadly, it’s about the one communication skill that is not only the most important, but, in my professional opinion, outweighs all the others combined. Think of the image of a scale. In theory, put the first five skills on the left side of the scale, then put listening on the right side. The right side goes down. (You saw that coming, I hope.) In practice, though, it’s usually the other way around. As Albert Einstein put it: “In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.”

In all, the six leadership communications share, interestingly, six characteristics: (1) brevity, (2) clarity, (3) simplicity, (4) authority, (5) relevance, and (6) credibility.

They also face six barriers: (1) distraction, (2) emotion, (3) preconception, (4) linguistics, (5) discrepancies, and (6) inattention.

And they require six remedies to these barriers: (1) focus, (2) objectivity, (3) open-mindedness/fairness, (4) articulation, (5) facts, and (6) concentration.

Beyond this clinical examination of communication skills, there’s one other observation that will help to explain the difficulties most organizations have. However, one doesn’t need to analyze the communication skills of any organization to know that George Bernard Shaw was right when he said, “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has occurred.”

By Eli Amdur

 

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