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One of our Chol Hamoed outings, a few years ago, was to an indoor rock climbing place. The facility boasts numerous 40-foot climbs to the roof of the building, each climb varying in difficulty and level of challenge. (For those skeptics out there, I climbed one of the walls. At the top there was a bell, and I made sure the entire room was aware that I made it to the top.) It was fun and gratifying to watch each of our children try the different climbs. (They have a lot of practice climbing the walls in our home.)

I particularly enjoyed watching our then five-year-old daughter, Chayala. I was impressed that she was willing to put on the harness and even attempt to climb at all. The first few times she didn’t get very far up at all, and only a few feet off the ground her feet slid off the footholds and she was left hanging from her harness, before descending back to the ground. But, that hardly stopped her from trying again, and again and again. I loved watching her determination and persistence, which precluded her from focusing on her failure to get very far the first few times. The truth is that Chayala never did make it to the top, but no one could accuse her of not giving it her all and climbing a respectful amount.

On Sept. 12, 1962, President John Fitzgerald Kennedy gave a motivating speech at Rice University in Houston, Texas, in which he discussed his resolve and assurance that America would be the first country to send someone to the moon. He added that it would be done before the end of the century. It was a bold statement considering that at the time, the United States of America was far behind the USSR (Union of Soviet Socialist Republics) in the development and accomplishments of its space program. In the end, President Kennedy’s assertion came true, though he didn’t live to witness it.

During that talk, Kennedy noted that he was well aware of the challenge of trying to fulfill his dream. Yet, he was unequivocal: “We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard … We choose to go because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone and one which we intend to win.”

Because we are so blessed with material comfort and convenience, we need to remember that growth and greatness only come with exertion, persistence and effort. Discomfort—and often pain—are par for the course.

Rock climbing serves as a great analogy for all worthy accomplishments of life. All of one’s bones may ache and be crying out for relief, but if he is fueled by motivation and ambition—he will obstinately push onward, pulling himself up with every surge. Part of the euphoric feeling of reaching the “top” includes the knowledge that one has pushed himself beyond your comfort zone. Whenever we extend our limitations, we feel elated and encouraged.

The path to growth also includes knowing that somewhere along the way you may lose your footing and slip. But, as long as your harness remains firm, and you’re able to pull yourself back onto your path, you’ll eventually reach the top. Just remember that everyone’s “top” is different!


Rabbi Dani Staum, LMSW, is a popular speaker and author. He is a rebbe in Heichal HaTorah in Teaneck, NJ, and an experienced therapist, recently returning to seeing clients in private practice, as part of the Rockland CBT group. For appointments, Rabbi Staum can be reached at 914-295-0115. Looking for an inspirational and motivating speaker or scholar-in-residence? Contact Rabbi Staum for a unique speaking experience. Rabbi Staum can be reached at [email protected]. Archives of his writings can be found at www.stamtorah.info.

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