There is a reason why teachers do their job every day. It is because of the joy and inspiration we find working with your children. Their smiles, laughter and insights enrich our understanding of friendship, growth and even the latest ideas in learning. When teachers say we learn from our students, it’s not just a cliché—it’s a genuine truth that shapes our approach to teaching. We are committed to guiding them toward success and fostering a sense of pride in their achievements.
Teachers meticulously prepare for each new school year, gathering information from various sources to create a comprehensive understanding of their students. While parent insights, previous teacher observations and healthcare records offer valuable perspectives, nothing quite compares to the dynamic interplay of observing children within their classroom environment. Witnessing their social interactions, problem-solving skills and learning styles firsthand is indispensable in tailoring instruction to meet each child’s unique needs.
Teachers and parents form an invaluable partnership dedicated to a child’s growth and development. We are both deeply invested in their success and well-being. By sharing information and working collaboratively, we can create a supportive environment that nurtures their potential.
The importance of open communication can’t be stressed enough. It is essential to this partnership. While parents may want to hold back from sharing all details about their child’s life, this information could impact their school experience. Changes at home, such as vacations, new caregivers or family events, can influence a child’s behavior and emotions. Similarly, if parents notice any changes in their children’s mood, behavior or development, they should not hesitate to share these concerns or observations with us, their children’s teachers. Parents have the most intimate understanding of their children and should always trust their instincts. Only by working together can we create the proper environment in which children can thrive.
It’s natural to compare one child’s development to others, especially when interacting with other families at a Shabbat meal, at a playdate or even at Mommy and Me. However, it’s essential to realize that every child grows at their own pace. Each child is unique, with their own strengths, challenges and learning style.
As parents, you are your child’s first and most important teachers. Observing their growth and development is a rewarding journey. To support this process, consider reflecting on your child’s behavior and milestones.
Social Interactions: How does your child play with others? Do they share toys or take turns? Are there any social situations that seem challenging?
Learning and Development: Is your child meeting age-appropriate milestones? Are there areas where they seem to excel or struggle?
Physical Development: Are there any concerns about your child’s motor skills, such as running, jumping, or holding utensils?
Emotional Well-Being: Does your child seem happy and engaged? Are there any signs of anxiety, sadness, or frustration?
Daily Routines: How does your child handle routines like eating, sleeping and getting dressed? Are there any particular challenges?
Every child and adult possesses unique strengths and areas for growth, developing at their own pace. Let’s celebrate these differences and work together to foster a sense of pride in each child. There is no shame or stigma. Let’s put away any awkwardness and work together to help your child be proud of who he is and what she is able to do. For example, your sharing at the beginning of the school year that your child already has a relationship with a speech, occupational or behavioral therapist is important. In the first weeks of school in tandem with these therapists, we can learn from and develop strategies that will assist your child in growth and development. When teachers and parents and therapists work together from the start, your child is set up for success.
It’s important to be involved in your child’s classroom experience, and a great way to get involved is to make sure to read emails and newsletters promptly, as they contain essential information. Following the teacher’s requests, such as for specific clothing items, project materials or upcoming events will help your child feel prepared and confident.
When you empty your child’s backpack, take a moment to celebrate their work. Every scribble and creation is a unique expression. Share in their excitement by discussing their projects. If you don’t wish to keep all their artwork, consider mailing it to loved ones—a fun way to share their accomplishments.
Learning about your child’s school day can be both rewarding and challenging. While they might share the highlights, it can be difficult to uncover their full experience. To spark conversation, use photos shared by teachers as a starting point. Discuss the images together, asking open-ended questions like, “Tell me about this picture.” or “What do you think happened here?” Explore their thoughts and feelings about the classroom activities, focusing on positive and curious inquiry. These interactions can foster a deeper connection and encourage your child to share more about their day.
When your child faces challenges, whether it’s with a peer or another issue, please don’t hesitate to contact their teacher. Early communication is key. Work together to find solutions. Remember, what you observe at home might differ from our classroom perspective. Open dialogue is invaluable, often leading to breakthroughs and a strengthened partnership dedicated to your child’s success.
Approach the school year with an open mind and a commitment to your child’s growth. Your positive attitude is contagious. Show genuine interest in their school life to create a safe space for sharing. Active listening and support build trust and resilience. By helping them reframe challenges, you equip them with tools to navigate their world.
You are your child’s biggest advocate. Together, with their teacher, you form a powerful support team. Open communication is essential. Sharing information freely allows teachers to better understand and support your child’s development. Let’s make this school year a fantastic journey together!
Rachelle Zomick has dedicated over 35 years to supporting young children and their parents through the stages of early childhood. As an experienced educator and preschool director, she has played a pivotal role in guiding families. Rachelle offers consulting services, helping parents connect with the right professionals to address their children’s unique challenges. For more information, you can reach her at [email protected].
