This past Sunday night, Bergen B’Yachad organized a meaningful Carlebach yahrzeit kumzitz in under 24 hours. It all began with a call from Daniel Zucker asking if we could put something together in memory of Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach’s 30th yahrzeit. While nothing was planned, it felt like an important opportunity to bring the community together.
Rabbi Carlebach was known for helping people reconnect to Judaism, Hashem and themselves, and the event was to honor his legacy. I reached out to Sandy Shmuely on Motzei Shabbat, and he was all in. By Sunday morning, Avram Pengas joined as well, and together, they helped create a special night of inspiration and connection.
Planning an event like this on such short notice wasn’t without its challenges. It would have been easier to say no and leave it for another time, but I remembered a teaching from Rebbe Nachman: When we serve Hashem, doubts and obstacles often arise, but we must encourage ourselves to push forward. What may feel like distancing is actually part of being brought closer. With that in mind, we pushed forward, and by Sunday evening, everything was ready.
The result was a packed room filled with singing, energy and a true sense of community. Attendees from more than 10 shuls across Bergen County participated, representing the diversity of the Jewish community. The night included divrei Torah, personal stories about Rabbi Carlebach’s impact, and music that inspired all who were there. The atmosphere was uplifting, and many left feeling a renewed sense of connection and spirit. One attendee commented: “This wasn’t just a night of music—it was a night of connection, to each other and to something bigger than ourselves. I left feeling energized and uplifted.”
The event exemplified the mission of Bergen B’Yachad, which is to bring the Jewish community of Bergen County together, regardless of background or affiliation. It was a reminder that even in the face of challenges and time constraints, when we come together with the right intentions, the results can be extraordinary.
Looking ahead, Bergen B’Yachad has more events planned to build community and foster connection. On December 1, we will host a musical Hallel for Rosh Chodesh Tevet, bringing in the new month with joy and inspiration.
Later on that day will be the American premiere screening of “Crazy Diamond: The Story of Yaron Shai z”l.” This moving film highlights the life and heroism of Yaron Shai, who gave his life defending the kibbutz of Kerem Shalom. Yaron’s parents will be present to lead a discussion on Jewish unity and community following the screening.
Additionally, mark your calendars on Sunday, December 22, for a pre-Chanukah community event featuring the talented children’s entertainer and educator Rabbi B.
To stay updated on upcoming events, visit BergenByachad.com and join our WhatsApp group.
Bergen B’Yachad is about building bridges and creating moments of connection that remind us of the oneness we all share. As we continue this journey together, may we carry the spirit of unity and inspiration we experienced this past Sunday night into all that we do.
Dr. Josh Schwarzbaum is a physician, speaker, coach and author with a passion for connecting the Jewish community. Through his volunteer work, he leads initiatives and programs that bring together Jews from all walks of life. To learn more about him visit www.healthyinside.net.
