- 2 heaping tablespoons hearts of love, unconditional
- 1 teaspoon scents of accomplishment
- 1 tablespoons emphasis on strengths
- 1 dash of criticism, softened—(use sparingly)
- 3 ounces of self-respect
- 1 tablespoon time and attention, extracted (quality over quantity)
- 1 “kupp” full of Torah and mitzvos
- 1 pinch firmness
Preheat with shalom bayis and passion for Torah.
Prepare based on temperament and personality. Add a healthy dose of tefillah. Mix together all ingredients while continually adding tefillos. Allow to rise generously.
Give space to cool.
For best results ensure plenty of good consistency. Serve and enjoy together as a family.
Use: Plenty of choices and listening ear
Yield: 1 healthy serving—each different and unique in its own way.
Results will vary.
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